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A Vignette - a brief evocative description, account, or episode
Tips of Icebergs , 
   A sharing of candid reflections during the week that was.
Seven births,  Seven Days,  Seven lifetimes for a mayfly .

LIFE IS NON LINEAR

8/20/2023

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📉📈  ​LIFE IS NON LINEAR 📉📈
 
Zigzag the river of time meandered ,
Flowing through mountain , plateau and dale ,    
Life is not linear she had come to realize, 
More of a rambling circuitous tale
 
Growth is not linear , but a varied mix
Of flower , succulent  and germinating bud ,
In soil that can be loamy , laterite , clay ,
Or the strange lotus that blooms in mud. 
 
A forward investment among indexes ,
The volatile risk of the S&P 500  ,
Life’s trend is not linear ,  beggars become kings ,     
Or in reverse – judgement has blundered   
 
Success is not linear , knows the diamond in the rough
It concedes to gentle pressure by and by
Brillianteering of life can be exacting  ,
As we are shaped by the wise lapidary in the sky. 
 
The road can be meaningful if lessons allow ,
By letting go of the non-serving  past ,      
Life is not linear , yet a blessing sublime , 
Developing a personal Venn and experience amassed.   
 
Love cannot be linear ,  heart and soul emphasize ,  
Erratic vitals keep us awake and alive ,     
A monotonal ECG reflects death and the end ,   
Sans change and upheavals,  how could we thrive ?         
 
Dilute your demons with compassion & good ,
Life and living become a whole lot easier , 
Trauma is tricked into transformation ,    
When you embrace a life that is non-linear
 
 🌄🌋🌄📈📉📈📉🌋🌄🌋

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I LET YOU GO MY CHILDREN

8/20/2023

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I let you go my children ,
To fly away , to be your own ,
To erect respectful boundaries ,
Now that you have grown .
 
I let go of any remorse and guilt ,
A few regrets in your upbringing ,
If I knew then what I know now ,
With confidence I might be singing
 
I let go of fragile eggshells
Whose ownership is mine alone ,
I tread on them before you came along ,
On you I cannot cast first stone
 
My intentions were true and highest ,
Cheerful balanced  children my goal ,
True leaders , good human examples ,
As you walked away from my fold.
 
I would be delighted to rediscover ,
Whether our bond can now be earned ,
If curiosity replace past certainties ,
A new relationship can be learned
 
My willingness and love are unwavering ,
My deep faith in you stands firmly ,
Eager to choose and begin anew this
Parent child relationship asymmetry

 
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I RELEASE THESE EGG-SHELLS ....

8/20/2023

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​I release these delicate eggshells ,
My own symbols of hyper sensitivity,
I stop trying to over correct ,
My needless attempts at proactivity
 
Unbiased awareness eluded me ,
Hurting you was never meant
Merging the past with the present ,
A victim never entirely innocent
 
These eggshells lived within me
Well before you were born ,
Remnants of my childhood correctness,
Strict regimen and days forlorn .

 


I own them now these egg shells ,
On no one do I cast any blame ,
No parent , no child , no trauma
No circumstance against my name
 
These eggshells represent my own polarity ,
Forward thinking on its head ,
But do I really envision correctly ?
Or dip into old biases instead  ?
 
I am ready to set aside these egg shells ,
Replace them with fresh confidence ,
Enquire ? Ask outright ? Listen in ?
Cease sitting on that proverbial fence
 
I am so done walking on egg shells
Of second guessing and living in fear ,
With good intention I shall speak ,
Of things I hold most dear.
 
And wait for that calm understanding ,
My own part I can surely do ,
No longer egg shells will hold me back ,
Only my boundary of love and your point of view.
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THE WISDOM OF ADVERSITY

8/20/2023

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​I welcome the wisdom of adversity , 
The arduous climb when things get tough 
Brillianteering a diamond until it gleams, 
Once dull and in the rough.
 
I welcome the teachings of trials
The opportunity to resilient become ,
The fire by which steel is tempered , 
Life going full circle , and then some.
 
We are forever altered when
Adversity dips into our emotional reservoir ,
We cannot un-process or un-see ,
We cannot erase the imprint and battle scar .
 
A linear life may seem tempting,
As impossible as it may be.
Adversity staves off human arrogance ,
Making us approachable in our humility.
 
And so I embrace the lessons of adversity ,
Often the best  , a blessing in disguise ,
Keeps me innovative ,  strong and seeking ,  
Keep me learning , compassionate and wise .
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TYPES OF LIARS QUADRANT - BY NIR EYAL

8/10/2023

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